How to resolve the deadlock in communication
1.However, some people of my sole esteem put themselves at the center of social networking and have a stiff attitude in communication. With me as the axis, I hope that the other party will follow suit, obey ourselves, make no gestures and make friendly expressions, and there will be no mutual contact between the two parties.Indifferent “rigid” situation.
2.Different types of people who value each other have different levels, levels, rich and poor, knowledge, and abilities.
At this time, the party in the superior class will feel good about themselves and be accustomed to looking down at people; the party in the inferior position will live a proud and unyielding attitude.
The relationship between the two parties cannot communicate and develop.
In many cases, the “stiffness” of communication will not occur in many situations.
Just as the communicative relationship is about to deepen and develop, the actions of the other party will cause Party B’s negative reactions, which will cause sexual anger, close heart palpitations, and turn negative attitudes. The relationship that could have developed smoothly will cool down.
4．Phase Repulsion Certain relationships in nature are attracted to each other, and some relationships are interfering.
This is also true of interpersonal relationships. Some people are naturally speculative and harmonious together, while others seem to be naturally opposed. Past enemies are dissatisfied with each other and are not pleasing to the eye. There is no way to develop relationships.
How to break through the deadlock in communication?
The introduction method is as follows: 1.
Overcome self-awareness and establish an open mind.
Examining the phenomenon of “stiffness” in communication will notice the fact that this phenomenon usually occurs in two types of people: one is arrogant and the other is introverted and arrogant.
Their distinguishing characteristics are self-righteousness, strong self-esteem and self-closing.
To break the “stiff” situation of communication, we must first overcome self-awareness, establish an open mind, dilute the word “I”, and take the initiative to communicate.
**** The phenomenon depends on the essence.
The communication “stiffness” phenomenon is a bit of a small family, no one wants to face it, and no one admits to be surrounded by it, but sometimes it really exists.
If we can clarify this essence, the merger will suddenly laugh at our stupid and absurd behavior, leading us to take a proactive approach and consciously communicate with each other.
3．Focus on style and skills, and on delicate relationships.
The “stiff” situation of communication is to be broken, but it is very delicate in itself, and there may be some relationships that are difficult to elaborate.
Therefore, the methods and skills at this time are particularly important: the appropriate methods and rounded skills can achieve the goal satisfactorily; otherwise, it may cause abruptness or be counterproductive.
4．Show personality charm and gain respect from each other.
Breaking through the “rigid” situation of communication is a matter for both parties, which cannot be achieved by one party alone.
It is true that being proactive and developing style, it is necessary and positive that you take the initiative first.
But it is also to evoke the response of the other party, to give the other party shock and inspiration.